Joseph Bishop was left bereft without his wife. He was 53 years old and childless, with a successful ironmongery business and no-one to leave it to when he died.A solution appeared to the latter the following year, when Joseph's brother William Bishop passed away in England, leaving an 18 year old son called Henry.
Henry had been schooled at Banbury School in Oxfordshire, and at the time of his father's death was a young man with his life before him.His only sibling, a brother named Charles William, had died in 1854 at the age of 8 years, and his mother Eliza Gilbert Bishop would have been torn when the letter from her brother-in-law arrived from Australia, suggesting that her only remaining child go and live with him in Melbourne to learn the ironmonger trade and become his heir.
There are two contenders for the ship on which Henry Bishop sailed to Australia- the 'British Trident' which arrived in early April of 1860, and the 'Orwell' which landed in Melbourne in May of 1861.
No age was given for the Henry Bishop who sailed on the 'British Trident', which left Liverpool on January 10, 1860.The Argus listed "The Revs. Messrs McGirr and O'Sea, Messrs H. Bishop and W.H Birds, and 113 in the steerage and intermediate. Francis Boyce Captain."
There are doubts about this ship due to a time discrepancy...William Bishop, Joseph's brother, died on September 2, 1859. Allowing for a letter with this news taking almost three months to reach Melbourne( c. early December 1859), and Joseph's reply and offer to take Henry into his home and business taking the same amount of time to get back to England (March 1860), the 'Trident' had already sailed in January.
There is one explanation for this...William's death certificate stated that he died of "chronic disease of the stomach" of 18 months duration. William was a Master Plumber and Glazier, both of which involved using lead. Lead poisoning, causing chronic stomach disease amongst other terrible symptoms, was a common killer of people working in these trades. If William had known his disease was incurable and he didn't have a great deal of time left, he may very well have let his brother in Australia know earlier, and Joseph's plan for Henry may have made its way to Lincolnshire prior to William's death.
The other possibility for Henry Bishop's method of arrival was the ship 'Orwell', which arrived in Melbourne in early May of 1861. On board was a passenger named Henry Bishop whose age was given as eighteen- our Henry was twenty years old at this time, but that is not a real issue as ages given on shipping records are notoriously 'dodgy'! What does give pause for thought, though, is the fact that this Henry Bishop was not named amongst the handful of Cabin Passengers as published in the Argus, and therefore must have been one of the 22 passengers accommodated in intermediate and steerage.One would think that a nephew of the wealthy Joseph Bishop would have been sent the fare to ensure his occupancy of a cabin room, if in fact his own mother did not have the money to buy his passage as a cabin passenger.
The earliest mention of Henry in Australia is in a letter written by Jospeh Bishop to Mrs Jessie Hughan McCallum of Youngera Station in Swan Hill. Dated December 19, 1861,the letters says in part:
" Pray accept my warmest best thanks for the hearty manner your kind invitation is given for Henry and myself to visit you- I am not so certain about my trip to England-therefore am doubtful whether I do "leave my boy" should I be fortunate enough to get off. I shall feel quite happy and comfortable as to the care and watchfulness that you, my dear Mrs McCallum and Bertha and Allan will bestow upon him- bless the dear boy. How sincerely I hope he will be pleased with the change."
In another letter dated August 6th, 1862, 8 o'clock p.m, and written on paper marked with the address '37 Elizabeth Street', Joseph starts a letter to Henry with:
" My dear Harry, Here I am truly a bachelor all alone. I don't very well yet shake into the life and fancied I should like it better than I do."
This was written almost four years after Mary Ann Bishop's death- it seems as though he was still very much missing her.
Henry remained in Melbourne with Joseph for several months after his arrival, and was then sent to the huge Murray station near Swan Hill called 'Tyntyndyer'. Owned by the Beveridge Brothers who were friends of Joseph's,it was supposed to expose the young Englishman to the extremes of Australian farming and see if he was suited for the calling. Henry found himself more suited to courting the young woman next door, Bertha Hughan, and Joseph found himself writing to Bertha and gently but firmly warning her off keeping Henry away from the business at hand, which was learning sheep production.
He wrote "I have ten thousand thanks and kisses in store for you for the kindness and attention you bestow on my dear Harry. Bye the bye you have kisses in store for me when I come to 'Wirlong'(the name of the McCallum's homestead on their property'Youngera' where Bertha lived with her sister Jessie McCallum)- shouldn't I like to have a peep at you. I notice how nicely you describe the amusements of Harry and yourself, viz cribbage,ride, walk, fish etc. this is all very well and right- he should indulge in such pastime occasionally, but please young lady to bear in mind that I want and beg you will encourage all you possibly can his soon obtaining a thorough knowledge of sheep and their management- he has his living to get, his way to make in the world, beside which I may want him to be of use or render some service to this "old buffer" who is sometimes seized with the notion that he will require some such aid in his old days."
This letter was written on May 20, 1862, when Joseph was 57 years old and Bertha Hughan was 23, and other parts of the letter were so blatantly flirty that I wonder whether Joseph had Bertha firmly in his sights as the next Mrs Joseph Bishop. The letter started off:
" My dear Bertha,
Oh how CRUEL and UNKIND of you to say you hate me. What is to become of me if I lose your kind, affectionate, pretty approving smile. How can I be happy if Bertha frowns? I know I have been negligent, indeed I am an unmitigated scamp to allow your two kind letters of 12th July and 26th March to remain so long unanswered, but never did I think however great my fault that with my dear kind Bertha it would be an unpardonable one. Neither is it. Come let me beg you will write me one of your nice interesting notes, and say you forgive me- there you will- then I shall be happy."
It goes on..
" So you want me to send you my portrait do you? Well you just can't have it-tisn't to be had. You never saw such an old villainous looking prize fighting sort of chap in your life. Harry will tell you. What do you think of his? I presume he has one with him to show you."
He finishes off with " I do hope you will write me particulars of the passing events of Wirlong-waiting which I am my dear Bertha, Yours ever truly, Joseph Bishop."
Any plans that Joseph may have had concerning a relationship with Bertha Hughan would have crumbled with a letter he received from his nephew Henry just a few months later. In the letter- which I have never seen but which is referred to in the letter that Joseph wrote to Henry in response- Henry informed his uncle of his engagement to Bertha. I would love to know whether Joseph viewed the news as a shock out of the blue, or whether he had sensed what was coming as the two young people spent so much unsupervised time together in the Australian bush.
Henry had turned 21 years old in January of 1862, and despite Bertha always claiming that she was the same age as Henry, she had actually been born in January 1839 and so was two years older than him.